Our mistake
The biGgest mistake that women often did
when they are deciding to be married
1. We are choosing based on his appaearance and status, without considering his personality
*Yep .. the biggest and foolish decision ever make if you do this. If you think that looks can kill then you should reconsider it before it's too late. Well you don't wanna have a georgeous sexy white husband but in the end he is a psycho, do you?2. We can not say "NO"
* Just because he's so kind, generous and too good to be true, we can not say "NO" when he asks the "will you marry me?" thing. We have that right to say "NO", you know!! The most important thing we have the right to be with someone we really love and we have the right to choose. And there is no such thing as "return his favor". If he really loves you then he will ask nothing from you. He gives all that he wants to give just because he loves you and do't expect nothing in return in the first place.
3. You get married so you can escape your parents'
* Once I have a friend who travelling down that road of marriage just because she wants to show rebellion thing to her parents. And guess what happen next? Yup she finally divorced her husband. This won't take you anywhere but heart ache. Not only you who suffered, but also your children (If you finally had them). She said that her decision just based on emotional only. Please don't do this before you hurt a lot of people. Yes a lot. Let's say you & your husband (unquestion), your child, your parents, his parents, your whole family, his whole family. See my point??
4. Marriage = solving your relationship's problems
* If you think that solving problems that you are dealing with when you are still a couple with getting married to him, then forget it.It's not going to work out. The best way is to cope the prob when you are still in couple and see whether you two can make it or not. If it isn't then you have to reconsider whether you want him to be by your side for the rest of your life. There will be more rough road to travel if you are married to him. If you two just seeing each other then you can break up with him. SOLVE!!If you already married??See hard decision to make. Especially if you two have a different perspective.
5. You don't want to be alone
* Leave this to all of you!! You know the answer to yourself. But being single is not the end of the world, right??
6. Pay your revenge to your ex
* Well, Happy now Suffer Later?? I dont think so!!!
I think that marriage is not an easy decision to make +)
Better be single than to live with someone I don't love
or an alcoholic or whatsoever
But If you think you already found the ONE
who are so loyal and loving you so much and vice versa
Then don't let him go By the way Congratulations for my boyfriend's sister
who is going to be wed next year!!
Happy for you,sis!! *cupz*
posted by SopHie @ 11/07/2005 10:16:00 AM
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